How to stop playing small & start designing a bold, aligned life

Maybe you’ve felt it. You have big ideas, dreams that light you up, and a deep knowing that you’re meant for MORE. But somehow, you find yourself holding back. Hesitating. Waiting for the perfect moment.

🚨 Guess what? That moment is NOW. 🚨

Here’s the truth: Most of us are living smaller than we realize. Not because we’re not capable—but because we’ve been conditioned to stay in our comfort zones and play by someone else’s rules.

It’s time to stop playing small and start designing a life that actually reflects your biggest, boldest vision. Let’s talk about how to do that.👇

Step 1: Identify where you’re playing small

Before you can break out of it, you need to recognize where and how you’re holding yourself back. Ask yourself:

✅ Where am I shrinking myself to fit into expectations?

✅ What decisions have I been avoiding out of fear?

✅ Where do I know I need to step up—but haven’t yet?

💡 Pro Tip: Look at your daily life. Your job, your relationships, your routines. Are they aligned with who you really want to be? If not, that’s your cue to start making changes.

Step 2: Rewire the mindset that’s keeping you stuck

Playing small isn’t just about external choices—it starts in your mind. The good news? You can change it.

Common mindset blocks that might be keeping you stuck:

❌ Fear of failure → What if I mess up?

❌ Fear of judgment → What will people think?

❌ Fear of success → What if I can’t handle it?

Reframe it:

✅ Failure = Growth. Every misstep is proof that you’re in motion.

✅ People’s opinions don’t pay your bills. Do it anyway.

✅ You’re capable of more than you think. Start acting like it!

Inside The Play Big Playbook, I teach you how to retrain your brain for confidence and action—so you can stop hesitating and start moving. 🚀 Check it out here

Step 3: Design a bold, aligned action plan

You don’t need to wait for permission to play big—you just need a plan that gets you moving.

🎯 Try This:

✔ Choose one area where you’re ready to step up (career, creativity, health, relationships, etc.).

✔ Set ONE bold goal that aligns with your values and excites you.

✔ Commit to an action step THIS WEEK (because action beats overthinking every time!).

Example: 💡 Instead of "I want to start a business someday" → "This week, I’ll launch a simple landing page for my idea."

Step 4: Surround yourself with big thinkers

Want to know a secret? The fastest way to start playing bigger is to surround yourself with people who are already doing it. Energy is contagious.

✅ Find mentors, communities, and courses that challenge you to level up.

✅ Distance yourself from people who keep you stuck in the same cycle.

✅ Make bold thinking your new normal.

That’s exactly why I created The Play Big Playbook—a complete system for getting unstuck, setting bold goals, and making them happen. If you’re ready to step into your biggest, boldest self, this is your next step.

🔹 Join The Play Big Playbook Today

🚀 Ready to stop playing small? Your move.

You already KNOW you’re meant for more. The only thing left? Taking action.

✅ Identify where you’ve been shrinking yourself.

✅ Rewire the limiting beliefs that are keeping you stuck.

✅ Take a bold action this week toward what you really want.

✅ Surround yourself with people who challenge you to level up.

🔥 You don’t need another year of waiting. You need a strategy for playing bigger—starting NOW. That’s where The Play Big Playbook comes in. If you’re ready to stop holding back and start making bold moves, this is your sign. 🚀

🔹 Let’s do this—check out The Play Big Playbook.