Lucky Girl Syndrome: How to build your own luck & boost self-trust
Is luck real—or do lucky girls just have a plan?
You’ve probably heard of Lucky Girl Syndrome—the viral mindset shift that’s got women everywhere saying, “Everything always works out for me.” But luck and confidence aren’t just about repeating affirmations: they come from action! The more you show up for yourself, the more ‘lucky breaks’ appear.
I can tell you firsthand: luck is something you can create. Lucky girls don’t just hope for the best: they build systems that set them up for success. That’s where self-trust, confidence, and momentum come in. So today, I’m breaking down exactly how to create your own lucky ecosystem.👇
Step 1: Mini wins = self-trust = more luck
🚨 The biggest mistake people make? Thinking luck is external.
Luck doesn’t come from waiting—it comes from proving to yourself that you can take action and make things happen. The easiest way to do that? Stack up mini wins.
🎯 Try this:
✔ Set one small, achievable goal every day (drink more water, send the email, take the first step).
✔ Track your wins—every single one. The small ones count (they actually matter most!).
✔ Celebrate progress, not just the finish line. Momentum breeds confidence.
🚀 Inside The Play Big Playbook, we focus on creating mini wins that build self-trust—so confidence becomes a habit, not a struggle. Check it out here
Step 2: The Lucky Girl Ecosystem—where success feeds itself
Luck isn’t about crossing your fingers—it’s about stacking the odds in your favor.
🔥 How to create your own lucky ecosystem:
✅ Identify Your Core Values: Lucky girls stay aligned. (What actually matters to you?)
✅ Have a System for Success: No more “hope strategy.” (What’s your plan?)
✅ Reflect & Adjust: Luck comes from learning what works. (How do you check in with yourself?)
💡 Pro Tip: The Wheel of Life exercise inside The Play Big Playbook is the ultimate gut check—helping you assess what’s working, what’s not, and how to keep leveling up. 🚀 Check it out here
Step 3: Journal prompts to activate your lucky girl mindset
Your thoughts shape your reality. Get intentional with these prompts:
✍️ What is one way the universe has supported me lately?
✍️ What’s a small win I had this week? How did it make me feel?
✍️ What is one action I can take today that future me will thank me for?
✍️ What story am I telling myself about success? Does it empower me?
✍️ How can I create more opportunities for ‘luck’ in my life?
Journaling isn’t just reflection—it’s an activation tool. Inside The Play Big Playbook, I guide you through powerful exercises to shift your mindset, build confidence, and make your own luck. Learn more here.
🚀 Lucky Girls Play Big—are you in?
Luck isn’t magic. It’s the result of consistent, confident action. And when you have the right tools, mindset, and plan in place? Everything does start working out for you.
✅ Build self-trust through mini wins.
✅ Create a success system that stacks the odds in your favor.
✅ Use reflection (Wheel of Life!) to gut check & course correct.
🔥 The Play Big Playbook is the ultimate confidence booster because it helps you create a repeatable system for success—so you never have to rely on ‘luck’ again.
